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How do you attract women? How do you talk to women? How do you approach women?
I’ll come back to that…

Who is Mustikin?
A little side-step about his Experiences.
Abu Bakar Mustikin,is just like most of you Internet Freaks.
Spending time using the internet, finding interesting news, sources, facts etc during free time when not out of the house.
In January 2008, as someone who love to try-out stuff and a risk-taker(get in trouble ever since young for loving to test system in school work play), he ventures into the online business world.
What did he find?
It was an experience he will never forget.
He created many mini-projects that some, just go ‘BLOOP!’
After learning some stuffs and a Book, he do realise for the past months, or years,
he has been opportunity-hopping.
Meaning?
Going from one opportunity to the other and in the end never gain anything in return.
Never focus.
Ever since that, it was a mistake he learnt.
Last year, he ventured into another online business deal.
It was created by Tissa Godavirtane.
An affiliate marketer and now his business is really spread out worldwide.
Every businesses are focus on a niche.
He is into what is known as People Search engine.
That is his main niche.
But, he package it with other niches into one.
As an affiliate marketer, he knows what he is doing.
He has so many other great affiliate marketers doing business with him.
One day, Mustikin had a talk with a Grandpa who is into this Affiliate Marketing business..
Don Pierce!
He was taught how to start together with Tissa’s program by Don Pierce.
Even before this, Abu Bakar Mustikin had a weblog solely focusing on interesting Digital Information that is on demand by friends, acquaintance and others.
Lay and behold Digital Information On Demand. He even had a facebook page for ‘em!
(now defunct)
What he is up to now?
Currently , he is an Affiliate with friends that are the best or top gurus in dating/relationship niche.
Mustikin had spent copious amount of time researching the best products, advices, tips, seminars etc and had even discover them out in his dating life. He also loves the persuasion books associated to businesses.
There was a moment, one day,he started to find ways to find back the path he was in the ‘singlehood’ life.
He had a talk with one of his friends, ‘A Natural’. (They call him a ‘playboy’)
Had a conversation with one of his friends whom discover communication skills with new woman he is attracted with.
Mustikin started, on Online Dating, modified what he know, suitable to get to know someone new Online.
Like he always said,
“It is not about manipulative.
It is about Teasing, Being Playful, Have a Laugh, Make them Love you for making them Laugh.
Laugh at your jokes and your playfulness not at YOU. There’s a big difference.
Keep this in Mind.”
Abu Bakar Mustikin had spent copious amount researching the advices, products,tips, turn up in seminars etc from the Gurus or Advisors,
He have sort out what are best, what are not.
Even discovering them out in his dating life whether it works.
He do find out that,
if you try to be what you are not really are,
Women can see them.
Even though you not realising it.
What made me start into this?
I have girlfriends who told me something about ..guys…
I found out something that is very wrong in the Dating Scene.
One of the kickstart website I created was areyouawuss.info, now settling peacefully @ www.areyouawuss.blogspot.com.
(Read more @ my weblog)
One other webpage created is www.whatwomenwantfrommen.weebly.com
(If you like to read back my old weblog back in 2009, you can check it out here, although not recommended)
Why is she not attracted to me? What have I done wrong? Why? Why me?
What I am portraying here is, You can be what you are, who you really are.
And with a lil twist, to attract the women you want to be with in your life.
I know how it feels like when you are attracted to a woman, but, you just don’t have the guts to start a conversation.
I know how it feels like when you are attracted to a women, but, she is not attracted to you in the way you want it to be.
It is not all about what to say next.
It is all about You.
Your Confidence and Your Belief in you that will make women want to talk to you and to be with you.
And the conversation you have with a lady is way different “out of proportion” than when you have a conversation with your guy friends.
Ever had an ‘emotional-based’ conversation with a lady that keep them engaged?
And I’m not referring to talking like a gayboy to a lady amigo.
Do observe when two ladies are having a conversation.
What do they talk about and how they talk with each other.
I do believe that Attraction, is one of the most emotional desire men and women want in their life.
How do you attract women? How do you talk to women? How do you approach women?
These are some of the questions man keep playing in their heads when it comes to attracting the lady He desire.

What Are My Visions?
To enable you guys to discover and understand the Real Dynamics of Attraction in Dating that I portray here.
REAL Attraction Dynamics in Dating!
You may be surprise at some of the attraction concepts because they are always opposite or go against on what we thought we know in the elements and the attraction dynamics in dating.
Discover concepts like:
- What being a ‘Gentleman’ really means? “Gentle”-man or Gentleman?
- Why being an asshole once in a while is good
- What are the misconceptions we understand and believe are great in dating but the end result is always the opposite of what we expected
- How being able to portray ourselves as genuine while at the same time create that attraction we desire without look upon as a try-hard
- And more!
Discover them more HERE!
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http://areyouawuss.podomatic.com
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These was recorded early 2011. More improved podcasts coming up!
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