Emotional Divergence – Applying in The Real World

This is a continuation to the previous post in October 2012 : Understanding Emotional Divergence

When you are learning about dating and attraction, you will experience Emotional Divergence more often than in other walks of life. This is because what you will discover are designed to create strong emotions in women. Creating all kinds of emotions, but these emotions have no more permanence than any other emotion she might experience. We must create attraction and positive emotions over and over if we are to succeed with women. Creating attraction once is not enough to score. Over and over again is KEY.

Moving away from theory, let’s look into the Practical level itself. Let me give you a few practical examples of this from the real world, by Brad P:

Example 1 – Phone Flaking

This is the simplest example.

You use your identity and your style to get a woman’s phone number on a Saturday night. Perhaps she has been drinking or she is in high state because she is in a nightlife environment.

Then when you contact her a day or two later, she is in a completely different state and has no recollection of the emotions that caused her to give you her number.
She decides not to respond, and says to herself ,

“Oh I must have gave this guy my number because I was drunk. But I’m not going to respond, because I am not a slut and I don’t give my number out at bars.
I only date guys who have been my friend for 3 months or more, and I only date guys who are friends of friends.”

In the 6 months following this thought, she will probably meetup with 3-5 guys whom she encounter in a bar, because these guys were able to capitalize on the emotion of the moment.
She will give her number out 25 more times, and respond to two or three of the 25 men who contacted her.

She is letting the emotion of the moment dictate her behavior.

On Saturday nights, the emotion of the moment is “I am aroused and I love attention.”

On Tuesday afternoons, the emotion is “I am not a slut and I never give my number out at bars.”

What separate the Winner and the Loser?

What separates the guys who ‘score’ a date  from the guys who get a phone flake?

It’s simple.

The guys who score know how to capitalize on the emotion of the moment before it goes away and is “stricken from the record.”

Courtesy from Tchadquarterly.com

Example 2- Attraction Reminder

A friend of mine met a girl 2 nights ago who was a ‘legit 10′.
She had a boyfriend, but was flirting with him anyway.
At one point, she got very interested and started talking about sexual topics.
She brought up a few adult websites that she likes to view, and asked my friend if he has checked them out.
She was in high state. She was having a great time flirting.
Women love to flirt and talk about sexual topics when they are experiencing the emotion of attraction.

The next day, my friend decided that the website conversation was a missed opportunity, and he decided to text her about that very topic.

She found the text message weird and creepy and did not write back.

Now if you didn’t know about Emotional Divergence, you might say “Why in the hell would she find that creepy? It was her idea to talk about that in the first place!”

Here’s what happened. The girl read the text message and said to herself, “I’m not a slut, and I don’t talk about things like that. I have a boyfriend and I’m not interested in this new guy.”

In reality, she did talk about adult sites. She was interested in this new guy.
But you must remember, reality does not matter.
The actual events do not matter.

Only the emotion of the moment matters.

The emotion of the moment trumps reality every time.

Emotion trumps facts, figures, reality, past events, previous statements, and pretty much everything you can think of. I know it’s hard to get used to this idea, but if you can get used to it, you can leverage it to your advantage.

– Brad P


I share you this post so that you are able to absorb this information into your head first.
Enable you to get the idea about the importance of emotions when dealing with women.

If you wanna get to know more about Brad P, I strongly recommend you his program,
10 Minutes of Seduction.

Trust me, this aint for everyone.
These are ‘Mind-Bending Seduction skills’ that may get you in trouble when you did not imply on it promptly. Heh.
Nevertheless, if you are challenged enough and wanna bring yourself on the next level, I recommend you go and check Brad P’s 10 minutes of Seduction program.
Click here

I see you on the next one amigos.
Stay tuned!

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